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    People Are Pointing Out What Drops Someone From A 10 To A 5 Real Quick, And There Are No Lies Detected

    "I immediately lost any lady boner I once had for him."

    You know that feeling when you're on a date, everything is perfect, you think this person might even be The One...and then, they turn around and pull some bullshit?

    Well, Reddit user u/Boss31112 recently posed the question, "What turns someone from a 9 or 10 to a 5 real quick?"

    And there were so many great responses! Here are some of the top-voted answers:

    1. "Arrogance."

    u/yomo0302

    "100% this. I'll never forget a compliment I gave to a guy I was dating once. I said something like 'I've never felt this way before.' He deadass responded to me with 'That's because I'm not like the rest of them. I have a certain 'je ne sais quoi' about me. And I'm not just saying that because I speak fluent French.' Instant turnoff."

    u/_youllneverknow

    2. "Entitlement."

    u/low_temp

    "This shit goes straight to 0."

    u/WeHaveJams

    3. "If they litter."

    u/s0me0ne13

    "I went on a movie date with a super cute guy I was totally into. On our way home, he swung into Taco Bell. I was too nervous to order anything, but he got a few items. We started driving again, and he ate his last bites as a solid 9. Then, it happened. Dude rolled down his window and chucked his burrito wrappers out. I immediately lost any lady boner I once had for him."

    u/NiteVixen37

    A person throwing a drink cup out the window of the front passenger side

    4. "Constantly talking over someone else who is talking. Really irritates me."

    u/rddesignzfvsa

    5. "Lack of empathy."

    u/zensonic1974

    "And people who try to make you feel bad for having emotions or being 'sensitive,' like it's weird to care about things and people?"

    u/Sugar-n-Spikes

    6. "Being rude or demanding to others, even slightly."

    u/searequired

    "Mistreating the waitstaff. Total turnoff."

    u/Letmetellyowhat

    A waiter holding out a plate of food

    7. "Being unnecessarily loud."

    u/Anda1uz

    8. "Gatekeepers. 'Oh yeah, you like _____? BET YOU CAN'T TELL ME ABOUT (random obscure fact).'"

    u/Birdo3129

    9. "No passions or personal interests beyond buying things."

    u/ApartPersonality1520

    A person holding several large shopping bags

    10. "Anyone who says they’re an alpha is definitely a tool."

    u/Jesterzoop

    11. "Shoving religion/politics down your throat."

    u/Ben-Benny-Benjamin

    12. "Posting constantly on social media, particularly about insignificant things like what you ate for breakfast."

    u/DeathSpiral321

    A plate of french toast topped with fresh strawberries and whipped cream

    13. "When they open their mouth, and nothing good comes out of it."

    u/Love_dance_pray

    14. "Boring personality and no sense of humor."

    u/macaronsforeveryone

    15. "Poor hygiene."

    u/VY_Cannabis_Majoris

    "Bad smells. I can be open-minded in a lot of things, but that's something I can't get over."

    u/CanadianElf0585

    A person who smells standing inside an elevator with several disgusted people

    16. "Thinking smoking weed is a personality trait."

    u/nomoreholidays

    17. And finally, "People who leave grocery carts next to their cars instead of putting them in the corral. Schmucks."

    u/sandtrap62

    An empty grocery cart in the middle of a parking spot

    In your opinion, what drops someone from a 10 to a 5? Sound off in the comments below!

    Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.