Buzz·Posted on Oct 21, 201716 Tweets That Perfectly Explain How Men Can Be Better AlliesHere's what you can do.by Kevin SmithBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail In the wake of the Harvey Weinstein scandal women have been sharing their stories and offering advice on ways men can do better... 1. Heidi N Moore @moorehn Anyway, if you are a man, please understand and consider: every single woman you know, every woman alive, has been sexually harassed. 03:44 AM - 16 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 2. jenny slate @jennyslate If u feel uncomfy about saying "Dont speak that way about women" while in a social setting, imagine what it feels like to be the subject. 05:26 PM - 16 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 3. Nesrine Malik @NesrineMalik Tip. When apologising don't use the fact that there was an existing relationship or the fact that she stayed in touch after as emollients. 04:00 PM - 17 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 4. Abigail Shirley @abzdafab Dear Men, Please remove the phrase "as a husband and/or a father of daughters" from your vocabulary. Women exist outside your bubble. 11:26 PM - 10 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 5. JenAshleyWright @JenAshleyWright We've got it. You're a "father of daughters." Now start worrying about being a good father to sons. 04:09 PM - 11 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 6. Allison Tolman @Allison_Tolman I do feel bad for men with all the witch hunt stuff going on. Imagine being unsure if you could trust members of th… https://t.co/uHvrT2Cwl5 07:00 AM - 16 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 7. Helen Rosner @hels 1. Overcome your own transphobia. Trans women are women. Accept the lived truth of NB and GNC people, whether or not they are women. 03:05 PM - 16 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite Read the entire thread here, it's good. 8. Victoria Brownworth @VABVOX Do better, men. And you men who are better--step in & stop abuse. That IS the lesson of Weinstein, et al. It applies EVERYWHERE. 15/ 06:49 AM - 17 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 9. Amy Siskind @Amy_Siskind Shared by a guy friend on my FB page in reaction to #MeToo. Hoping guys here can read & RT to signal their sign-on… https://t.co/1CRiINNQUw 04:25 PM - 17 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 10. Danielle Campoamor @DCampoamor Survivors aren't material for your jokes We're not a hidden market for your products We're not your storytellers We didn't survive for you 06:17 PM - 16 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 11. whomst is she? @the_rewm Fun fact: yelling “have a good day!” louder and louder at a woman you don’t know on the sidewalk in an effort to ge… https://t.co/L5Ozwg866i 04:15 PM - 17 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 12. Sister Aprilgail @imatoofbrush I've learned more from reading black/brown/queer/non binary people's Twitter feeds than I did in college. 03:33 PM - 17 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 13. Jessica Valenti @JessicaValenti If you think being in the same room with a woman makes it hard to avoid raping or harassing her, perhaps you should… https://t.co/3ul52sslwf 02:26 PM - 11 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 14. B.I.E. Felicia @FeministaJones I want men to care about men's issues proactively, and not as reactions to women sharing their problems with men 03:08 PM - 17 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 15. Emma Roller @emmaroller perennial reminder: if your idea of left politics includes defending known harassers/abusers, 🎵 your politics are bullshit 🎵 03:56 PM - 17 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite 16. Nicole Silverberg @nsilverberg HEY MEN, WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING TO DO BETTER? because you need to do better I have some ideas 04:05 PM - 16 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite And just in case you couldn't read the above here it is: 17. 🎃Lane Moore🎃 @hellolanemoore i hope i live long enough to see the day when my female friends are writing #MeToo on social media to mean"i finally feel safe in the world" 11:07 PM - 15 Oct 2017 Reply Retweet Favorite