I've been single/sexless for 6 months. Something unthinkable happened! (you need to read this)

AmericanGangstar

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I am begging every man who clicked on this thread, regardless of age, just please PLEASE read in full what I have documented below. It could change you too, as it did me.

Ever since I was 22 years old, I have never gone more than two months before falling back on the same routine, putting pussy on a pedestal, and entering into a relationship with a woman on her terms, where she can walk all over me, administer sex only when it suits her - and the sex always, ALWAYS, vanilla as hell.

I'm now 30 years old, and six months ago my relationship with what I believe is my 17th girlfriend in 7 years came to an end. I was about to dive into some new broad from work when I asked myself why I was doing so badly in the relationship category ? It then dawned on me that, although in my mind - I was a good guy, I had my shit together; my lifestyle was rock solid, my aims and goals were well established - because it formerly became apparent to me at about 16 years of age that, you know - it's not good to be failure at life - so I explored possible interests until I have eventually a range of them well formed, and have been a whole and happy individual since.

None the less - I was so busy all these years trying to get sex from chicks, that I failed to remember the #1 rule in life for a man;

Man's happiness is not found in a co-dependent relationship, nor is it found exclusively in self nourishment and achievement. In addition to these, it's found - in a fulfilling sex life.

But women always had such a noose around my neck via the possible administration sex - that I was blinded to see that, as men, we should have some currency in this sexual transaction also - and if I learn to develop whatever this is, to the fullest extent, in terms of who REALLY wants to have sex with who - I can level up the playing field.

I decided I was going to go stop being a victim to their lack rational or accountability.

It was time to turn things about.
No more being a slave to the will of some floozies.
Time to take charge of the situation.

Month one: This was tough for me, especially cause I had always thought working out the upper body was masculine/alpha male - and dudes who focused on working their asses were poofs - so for several weeks, I had heavy cramps in my hams and glutes.

Month two: Cramping decreased as did lactic acid - what I assumed was a result of the muscles in that area becoming adapted to the savagery I was exposing them to each day, via heavy low bar back squats, Romanian deadlifts, leg press etc. Resentment toward women, though, did decrease a little - from what I assumed was 'evening up,' on the area they had which, all my life, had so much damn control of me - their ass.

Month three: Easily the most difficult month because the weights were getting heavier, really putting my technique and form to the test. I, again, had the option to pussy out and fall back on my beta male ways, but decided to hold out.

Month four: This is where things got interesting. I had stopped looking up at average amateur porn to masturbate for two weeks at this point, not sure why. I had begun masturbating exclusively to only the hottest kinkiest chicks (this is important) and I was beginning to feel more and more indifferent while looking at your well dressed, sexy woman with what I would have formerly considered to have an, "incredible" ass, on the street. My standards were clearly going up.
Those of you under 17 won't understand this, but it is vital for men to put sexual attraction in perspective of, "what makes them hot versus, what makes ME hot" - it is a primal instinct that has been lost to the darwinian sedentary generation of men.

The second week of month four is when I noticed some remarkable changes. My buddies told me I seemed more strong, assertive, less panicky - less like I had one constantly stuck in the chamber.
One even said my voice seemed deeper/more masculine. I also had picked up an interest in wood carving, something I just picked for the sake of picking, but found very interesting. The old me couldn't even concentrate enough to finish a magazine article before having to swipe through Facebook or my smartphone. Now I can carve a piece for two hours - it's a great escape.

Month five: This is when I surprised even myself. I have always loved studying MMA, but never had the courage to train or learn because I felt I was too old. None of these even crossed my mind as I joined a muay thai - kickboxing gym and have been going ever since. It's great for helping avoid body fat, whilst I focus on musculature development of - my ass, gluteus maximus etc.

Then, I had a very groundbreaking moment at a bar with my buddies. We were having a good time and I was eyeing this cute girl at a bar - mind you I have been sexless now for over 5 months. I eventually was able to speak to her as her gaggle of friends kinda talked into my group.

There came a point when the cutie I had been eyeing began asking me questions.
Without evening thinking about it, we were just looking at each other, and it's like the chemistry just overflowed.
Next thing she had just pounced on me with that pretty mouth, slobbing all over me.
The old me would have assumed that, perhaps she had lost a bet, or there was glitch in the universe - cause wasn't it guys that are always supposed to make the first move?
Not anymore.
I surprised myself when I said, "You're hot."
This surprised her but in her state of desire she responded with a meek "OMG!! So are you", whilst grabbing my ass and pressy her body into mine - normally, this would have resulted in me getting hot behind the ears and saying something barely comprehensible, like a desperate stumble bum, thus distancing myself and fucking the whole thing up, but I just stood there, turned to my buddy on the other side and said, "home-run here mate. I'll see you guys in the morning".

This girl ended up being a total raging slut in the bedroom, to me ! She put her whole thumb up my ass (which I have learned is a very important connection signal innate in attraction). Guess what I did - NOTHING. Cool as a cucumber, I made nice generic talk with her, as she had already finished me, multiple time. For the first time, I was forcing a woman to earn me. I went home alone the next morning, didn't even get her number - don't care.

I'm now into month six. I'm down 12 lbs from two months ago, sleeping better, only masturbate when the urge is high, and only imagine scenarios with real world women. I find my life has more meaning and purpose now than ever before. It's truly a beautiful thing when understand the balance of power between men and women, and work hard so that it sways in your favour. This cannot be done when you're desperately chasing after a wife or a girlfriend like a pathetic beta. On the contrary, I tell you now that wifey will come along when you're happy in yourself, and know they want you for the right reason (cause they're jealous of your ass), not out of some desperate beta need for security and companionship.

Cheers,
AmericanGangstar
 
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Didn't you just post this under a different name?
 
Fuck you I'm not reading all this damn shit
 
This seems like a first post last post sort of thread.
 
Did the other thread get deleted or something?
 
Cliffs:

TS was being a bitch
TS stopped being a bitch
TS got laid by some whore at a bar
 
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